@Sir_Boops My own domain + server at home, which actually surprisingly works with everyone's anti-spam, knock-on-wood (though I've had SPF and such working for a while, and a static IPv4 address from a 'small business' pool).
I do have a couple other legacy freemail accounts set up to just autoforward, too.
@kithop I was self-hosting for a long time but spam was such an issue :s